Today is the day that I will remember as the day that my best friend broke my heart. First love, first heartbreak, all of it. There are so many thoughts that get put into that, so many emotions. Lots of tears. Crying during the breaking up process, crying when you tell your best girlfriend about it (and she took time off chem studying to console me! <3), and crying to an intern/counselor/friend whose 5 years of additional wisdom means the world. It took about one and a half hours and 5 milk chocolate pieces, but by the end of it, all that was left was a makeup-free face and a handful of tear-and-mascara-soaked tissues.
Does it suck? Hell yeah.
Am I bummed? Duh.
Will I get through it? I have to. I need to grow, to learn. I need to learn that there are parts of my that no one can take, that I am me and no matter what someone else does to me, this part will stay true, and stay whole.
Maybe I’ll be more weary to trust new people. Maybe guys will stay in the friend zone a little longer. Maybe…I’ll take some time to realize that I deserve someone better, that I am worth someone else’s love and attention in a way that does not involve me compromising or hiding myself.
I need to realize that I am beautiful, and I am young. I have too much potential to let this bring me down for very long.
I deserve to be happy. I will take this summer to find myself, and find out what makes me me.
The wounds are still raw. They will heal with time, and in time I will love myself again.